This mentality might feel familiar – even within our own families. It’s not just a Filipino thing, but a common perspective in many Asian cultures. Here, the idea of having a large family is often seen as a way to secure the future.
Having a big family isn’t wrong – the choice of family size is deeply personal. However, it’s crucial to remember that children aren’t a magic solution. Quantity shouldn’t come at the expense of quality. We need to ensure we can provide for each child’s well-being, not just their basic needs.
Here’s the bigger issue: some parents believe a large family guarantees a comfortable retirement. They might not save for their own future or their children’s education, expecting older siblings to shoulder the burden. This creates a cycle of dependence.