This mentality might feel familiar – even within our own families. It’s not just a Filipino thing, but a common perspective in many Asian cultures. Here, the idea of having a large family is often seen as a way to secure the future.
Having a big family isn’t wrong – the choice of family size is deeply personal. However, it’s crucial to remember that children aren’t a magic solution. Quantity shouldn’t come at the expense of quality. We need to ensure we can provide for each child’s well-being, not just their basic needs.
Here’s the bigger issue: some parents believe a large family guarantees a comfortable retirement. They might not save for their own future or their children’s education, expecting older siblings to shoulder the burden. This creates a cycle of dependence.
Remember, the children we raise today will be parents tomorrow. Let’s set a positive example. We want them to learn responsible parenthood, not the idea of relying on their children.
If we haven’t prioritized saving for retirement, how can we expect our children to? It’s our responsibility, not theirs.
Proverbs 22:6 reminds us, “Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.” Let’s leave a legacy of wisdom and responsible parenting.
Live frugally. Your children will appreciate the value you place on financial responsibility. Show them how to save and plan for the future. This isn’t just about you – it’s about them learning to be good stewards of their own resources.
Invest in your relationships with your children. They deserve your love and support, not the burden of your retirement.
The Bible (2 Corinthians 12:14) says it best: “After all, children don’t provide for their parents. Rather, parents provide for their children.”
Focus on building a strong foundation for your family, not using them as a safety net.
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